I think I should've rephrased it a little - I think that ALL of the human race can be guilty of wanting to possess another person. Monsters can be men OR women (think of the stepmothers in Cinderella or Snow White and indeed the psychotic Bluebeard). People are a product of their times and many people find the old system of male/female roles very difficult to break free from, especially if that is the only way they have seen life.

I think that a person being unfaithful is in danger of killing their significant relationship off whether they are found out or not. At the end of the day, if that is a gamble they are willing to pay, then maybe they should consider not being in a relationship at all.

I don't think guys should use genes as an excuse and no, I would not *ahem* terminate anyone, but I would freeze them out so they wish they were dead LOL :-)